Rules of Engagement On Social Networks


No matter what business workshop you do, Social Media article or books you read, one thing is for sure - the age of engagement is upon us. Gurus and experts in the online field talk about the act of engaging with customers in order to build trusting relationships to build connections, and ultimately clients.

As for many things in life, it’s easier said than done, so with this article, I’d like to kick-start off with three key things that you can start doing right now, to engage your audience and customers.

Provide Value
This is one of those things that people always talk about, but the question is: how do I provide value? In the book ‘The Art of War’, the author talks about winning battles by the simple understanding of your enemy. Now, your customers are the furthest thing away from your enemy, but the rule stays true – know the other side user of your product or service. As a person with something to promote, who are your customers? Who are your potential customers? And who are your ideal customers? What do they do? Where do they work? Where do they reside? Where do they hang out? And what about your product would make them want to use it over the others out there? Listing benefits of what you offer is a great piece of advice for someone with something to offer others, but what extra knowledge and value can you provide that would make them want your stuff? If you are a vacuum cleaner dealer, write up a small blog post or article about the best way people can choose a vacuum cleaner, and subtly remind them that as you know your stuff, you can help them get that perfect vacuum cleaner. If you own a hairdressing business, how about putting out a range of hairstyles of the season/month/week? Your in business in your industry, so that’s got to mean you know your stuff, so don’t keep it a secret – share it with the world, and remind them to buy from you next time, of course.


Listen, Acknowledge & Reply
Probably the most underestimated act a business can do is not acknowledge their target market. If you want to know what people think about product, service, or even your business in particular, you’re just one Google, Facebook or Twitter search away from it! Read up, hear what others are saying already, and by providing the right value, turn potential customers into real customers, and real customers into returning customers. A big Social Media tip the ‘gurus’ always talk about is replying to questions aimed at you. Why would they be promoting this if this was done on the basis of common sense? Let me tell you, common sense doesn’t seem to be that common anymore, and if you’re one of the businesses that earn the reputation for listening to concerns, questions and feedback of your clients, it can really go a long way online. Bad news spreads like wild fire online, so to make sure you’re not on the end of the firing squad of online ‘trashers’, always reply when you are addressed online – whether someone posted a question to your Facebook Page, posed a question on your blog article, or sent you a direct message or mention on Twitter, reply, reply, reply. Even if you don’t have time to go out there and market your business to potential clients on a daily basis, make sure you are on your already existing Social Networks every day, with at least one update, and moderate and answer any questions that come up. Let me show you an example: my business SocialeMedia has a team of young people that are constantly online looking for trends, doing research about businesses, and moderating, updating and replying to clients on behalf of the clients who’s Social Network Profiles we manage. One of our clients is a hotel in New Zealand – it’s nothing fancy – none of that 5 star stuff, but is very centrally located in the capital. A lady had tracked down about 5 hotels in the city one day, asking if they had rooms on a particular night, when I almost know for a fact, none of those hotels were fully booked out. Our client was one of the hotels she reached out to, and we replied within the hour with a simple answer to contact the reservations desk, and another alternative e-mail address she could e-mail and say she got sent there from the Twitter profile. Not only did she go through with booking a room, she decided to stay on for a couple more nights, and later gave feedback that only one other hotel had replied to her with a generic ‘we’ll get back to you soon’ message. Has that built rapport with that customer? You bet you it did! Is that customer now tweeting to her friends that our client is the hotel she prefers when she’s staying in Wellington? You bet you! And has she sent friends to our client when they tweet about needing a room in the capital! Oh yes! Treat people nice, even if it’s as simple as replying at all, and it comes back to you ten-fold.

Free Stuff!
Come on, how can you argue with this point – everyone LOVES free stuff! Now before you start crunching the numbers around how your business can afford to get the latest iPad to give out as a draw to ‘one lucky winner’, hold your horses. Free stuff can attract people, but make sure it’s relevant. People are constantly being bombarded by offers to enter draws, chances to win stuff, and a lot of the time it becomes just another ‘act’ that is very unlikely to get you anywhere. Offer a discount, a free drink, a free haircut when they refer a friend…anything that will make you extra business. A café client of ours offered $1 coffees through a one-day-deals website one day. Do you know how many people bought that voucher? Over 1500! And these people could redeem it at any point during the next 6 months, so when you do the math, say each of those people brought a friend when they came in who bought a coffee for regular price themselves…you’re doing more than breaking even, not to mention still making money even off that $1 coffee…so the opportunities are endless – all you need to do is ask yourself: what can we offer that would get people interested?

How else do you engage your target market, and entice them to buy from you?


Eva-Maria is a 21 year old family coach, international speaker, social media consultant and author of the bestselling parenting book ‘You Shut Up!’. 

Her involvement in Social Media revolves around consulting and training organisations about using Social Media. Eva-Maria's business Social-e-Media employs young people from around the world to help businesses in New Zealand build and execute and implement Social Media strategy, providing the perfect win-win solution between generations to help each other create and achieve mutual value. 

Russian-born, Eva-Maria currently lives in New Zealand, working with various groups, businesses, and families, and is on a full-on mission to help improve 10,000,000 adult-youth relationships around the world.


Eva Maria is our youngest author. Born in Russia in 1990, she moved to New Zealand with her parents, brother and sister in 1996. She is now working towards an International Coaching Certificate.

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